Fetish restaurants? Supposed to love? I'm not sure I follow...
Having been blessed with a career that provided endless dining and tasting experiences--high, low and in between--one thing I learned for certain: restaurant experiences are personal. What you look for and prefer I might not and vice versa. For me, restaurants are about so much more than food--many of the places we frequent on St Barth are just as much about people, views and overall vibe. How a place makes you feel is often as memorable as what you order.
We don't go to Eddy's for the most incredible food, we go because we love its unique St Barth atmosphere. Ti Corail is a “food truck”on the beach with a beautiful view...expectation should match its simple mission. L'Esprit has some of the finest food on island but if you don't love the overall feel, so be it. People loved Maya's for what it was...simple food in a beautiful setting where they felt at home. I always likened it to a sort of "St Barth Chez Panisse." I'm not sure there was or is an "inner circle" or "clique"?
Each restaurant has its own personality and, just as with people, not all will click. Bottom line (obviously) go where you like! I for one appreciate hearing others' experiences and opinions on St Barth restaurants whether I agree or not. As they say, it's what makes the world go 'round ; )