What are you listening to right now?

It's always sad. Ya know that there's a point at which ya can't do anything more. Just smile, pray or do whatever takes into account the good that our failing family or friend have done. The end does happen. Gracefully acknowledge that. IMHO. Nope. Not easy.

In 2011 we lost four friends. We also support a foundation that pays for burials for the homeless. I'm gettin' tired of wearing dark suits. As long as I can wear them and respect - I'll even put on a tie. Sighhhhh...

Heck. I never know what is appropriate. This one came to mind:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ohXI3po8hK0
 
So sad. And we have a funeral tomorrow. Dear friend lost her Mom who was born in 1912 and made it to 2012.

A part of life-

Do try to make each day count!
 
Voosh said:
It's always sad. Ya know that there's a point at which ya can't do anything more. Just smile, pray or do whatever takes into account the good that our failing family or friend have done. The end does happen. Gracefully acknowledge that. IMHO. Nope. Not easy.

Voosh, I'm sorry to hear what you and your family and friends are going through. I have a similar philosophy.
 
No word, yet. We count our blessings, laugh at the good times we shared and hope that Bob will hang in there and take some more rides with us.

I haven't called today. The family is distraught and have their hands full. I can't add to the tragedy with stupid questions. They'll be in touch.

I just keep pacing in my office and saying "Why? Why?" If I could... I would... SH*T!

He helped me in a lot of ways. I helped in ways I could. We rode many miles.

It ain't over 'til it's over. Another ride in the winter air would be cool. Sigh.


600 miles, in MI, from door to door (one way) on our "Hawgs." The local folks always played and replayed this on the jukebox when we rolled in. Heck, the local LEOs and mayor would come in and buy us a brew. Yep. One great friend that never wavers.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQo1HIcSVtg
 
My friend "Bobbie," passed a few hours ago.

After talking with friends and family, I'll find and post one of my fav pics. Family and friends are planning a get together after the funeral.

Say Hi! to Bob!
 
Voosh, way too soon to be saying this to you again, hang in there and remember the good times. I am sending you a hug!
 
Oh, Voosh. I am heartsick for you, my friend. Know that I am praying for peace for Bobbie's friends and family and I'm sending you a bear hug.
 
Thanks all. I keep inside my gut what doesn't need to be mentioned. The rest I try to dump out ASAP so I don't get ulcers or more brain damage.


Most recent pic I have of Bob. Note his ORANGE tshirt.




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Bob's garage, last time I was there.




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He leaves behind his three wonderful, adult, kids and his soulmate of many years, Nadia, and his mother (we also just called her "Ma".) Oh, and those three Harleys, too.


Thanks for indulging me on this one.
 

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Too much loss, Voosh. Very sorry for all. We just came in from a ride and heard "One of These Days" by Neil Young. Beautiful song. Best wishes to everyone.
 
I'm compiling a DVD with tunes and vids for a private gathering of the "Big Six -1," with his family, two days after the official memorial. His memorial is on Friday the thirteenth. He woulda, probably does, love that it's Fri. the 13th. One stray cat with a heart that saved a lot of lives. Most of the crew I rode with I knew very earlier on. I met Bob after he left the US Navy as a hero.

Thanks for all the suggestions on tunes and vids. I have a week to get this done. Any other suggestions are welcome.

Last pic of Bob that a local custom bike shop sent me yesterday.

Thnx all. I'm just working on closure.





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Voosh, At times like this, the best that I can do is to wish for Peace for you and for Bob's family and his other friends. I'm sure that the DVD will be killer.
 
Something's goofy here. It's not showing up in the youtube listings. Got a link suggestion? I'm all ears. :)
 
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