This is a fascinating concept for me as I empathize with it. I like to think I am just a typical guy. That I am surrounded by people like me. I don't think of my circumstances as being anything out of the ordinary. Families we know do the same things we do. But I know objectively, my life is very different from how my parents grew up and frankly where I am at now is not close to how I grew up. In my youth vacations were rare. As a 10 year old I never traveled overseas for vacations. More often than not we drove some place that was within a day's drive and used the family camp trailer for accommodation. The average median household income in the US is around $75,000 a year. At that income, you're not traveling to any Caribbean island on any kind of regular basis. It unlikely that anyone who frequents this forum is average. Like Lake Wobegone, St Barts is where "all the women are strong, all the men are good-looking, and the children are all above average."
I very much appreciate that I am able to visit SBH and complain about it.
The irony to me about steelpe's new preferred destination is that I stopped going to St John years ago because I felt that it had gotten overbuilt and too expensive. The first Caribbean destination I ever made repeat trips to was St John. Back then a bottle of Cruzan rum cost less than a bottle of water. Save water, stay drunk was my motto. I began looking elsewhere when you had to get to a beach early because all the parking spots were gone by 9.