Diane, your situation is similar to ours. We have our hands full at home with five kids and try to do one four night trip just for the two of us each year. In two weeks we are making our third trip to Le Toiny. We always arrive Monday and leave Friday because it's easiest to be away when the kids are in school. Le Toiny is wonderful. The villas are beautiful and very, very private. Each has a real pool. While there we love driving around the island visiting beaches, great lunches, out to dinner etc. But getting back to Le Toiny each afternoon is great. You will love breakfast delivered to your terrace. Best beaches are Saline, Gouvernor and Columbier (a nice hike). Recommend long lunches at La Gloriette on the beach, Santa Fe, Sand Bar at Eden Rock. Relax, have fun, skinny dip, you deserve it!