As a long time reader of the Forum and (very) occasional poster, I was impressed by this thread, in that it illustrates the reason why I (and I suspect others) prefer to remain casual readers and not contributers.
Although I've been on the island over 20 times (frankly, I've lost count) and find many Forum topics comment-worthy, I contribute only occasionally. The reason for my reluctance is embodied in the current thread. Apparently, we've somehow lost the ability to disagree without interpreting the disagreements as personal affronts. Too often, what start out as constructive dialogs on restaurants, wardrobe choices, travel logistics (you name it) degenerate into rudeness and personal affrontery. Why is it we can't have stimulating discussions in which intelligent people disagree, without the conversations degenerating into (forgive me) p--ssing contests? Is it the relative anonymity afforded by the Internet, or (even worse) are we simply no longer able to tolerate those with whom we disagree? (And yes, I am also referring to more global issues--at least in my native U.S.).
So...Although we can't necessarily fix society at large, perhaps this Forum would encourage more participation (i.e., more posters) if it was a little more tolerant of dissenting opinions and if we could be a little kinder to each other. After all, intelligent people can disagree constructively. That's OK--It's one of the things that make life (and on-line forums) more interesting. And we do all agree on one important thing--We all LOVE St Barth.
Sorry for the sermonet, but the Forum members I've met down through the years all seem like great people. Perhaps we could be a little kinder to one another.
Cheers from Bequia (which you all would like, BTW).
--EGW.