At Marche, I was returning to my car and had what would easily be classified as a drunken, older man come up to me asking for money. It was dark, unexpected and disconcerting. I said no and he didn't leave, I did.
The situation at Oasis it was similar but with a younger crowd. This was Sunday night and the parking lot had a number of cars and trucks with people hanging out. As I mentioned, it's a daily occurrence at home, something I'm very familiar with. I've lived in a city for 30+ years and know how to take care of myself. I generally know when I don't have to worry. At Oasis it wasn't a comfortable situation and the young guy who approached me was unclear about what he wanted because he was pretty out of it. Again, I left.
I certainly didn't feel threatened the way I would have at home, but I was surprised at how uncomfortable I found the situation to be.
I'm originally from the Bahamas, having been born to American parents on one of the Out Islands. One of the things
I've loved about St Barths was the similar feeling to that time. Everything changes, even this island. I think it's important to be realistic about that and adjust expectations.I think the original article in this thread speaks to that.